Happiness (small)

Some of us are born with a very bad hand of cards and have a very low chance of attaining happiness. If you were born with a handicap, or if you were stuck in an impoverished sick environment that you are unable to escape, your only way to happiness is to have a loving family and close friends.

If you chance upon enough money to live a worry free life knowing that you can afford a comfortable home and have no worry of hunger, then you will be happy. If you win too much money, you are most likely to become greedy and very unhappy.

No matter where you find yourself on the scale of total unhappiness to total happiness, you can climb that ladder by following a few basic and simple to follow rules.


Emotional health and physical health are very closely related. Emotional health means feeling good about yourself and emoting it. This is easy to do if you are happy, but very difficult to do when you are unhappy.

Misinformation often leads to false expectations that lead to frustration and insecurity. Misinformation is spread by the mass media that choose what messages they want people to hear. With mass media blaring out what they want you to want, it is very difficult to know what you yourself really need. To know that, you have to love and get to know yourself.

To find happiness, you have to find yourself, know yourself, and love yourself. Then you have to find out what you like to do, and do it. You will see and learn that you cannot do something well unless you like to do it.

We are all unique with unique personalities. All personalities can be grouped into 4 groups, depending on what you are seeking most. Knowing what you seek will help you know what you need. Then you will know what kind of work you are best suited for so you will like to do it and you will do it well.

If you seek sensation most, 

then you would make

a very good handyman,

artist or performer, 

cook

or composer,

and if you have no talent for any of those skills, you would make

an excellent promoter for them.

If you seek security most, 

then you would make a very good salesman

or businessman, 

a fireman

or policeman.

And if you have no talent for any of those skills, you would make

an excellent supervisor for them.

If you seek knowledge most,

then you would make

a very good, lawyer, scientist, 

inventor, or

engineer. 

And if you have no talent for any of those skills, you would make

an excellent executive for them.If you seek inner-self most,

then you would makea very good doctor,

counselor, or teacher. 

And if you have no talent for any of those skills, you would make an excellent writer,

or a Nun or Priest

Whether you are an introvert

or extrovert, find out what you seek the most, and pursue your dreams.
Whether a talker, 
a watcher, 

a doer, or
 a thinker,

find out what you seek the most and pursue your desires. Find out what you like the most, and learn the skills to do it well.

Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody's watching.

Whether you find your happiness, or not, depends greatly on your attitude. Attitude is a most powerful freedom, and with hope, it is a most powerful force that you can use, or misuse. With a positive attitude you can excel, and inspire others to excel with you, but with a negative attitude you will only fall and hinder others.

When you are in the desert and you are short of water, you can look at your half bottle of water and be thankful that you still have half left. Or you can regret that half is already gone. You will be correct both times. The first thought will heighten your hopes and make you feel good. The second thought will lower your expectations and make you feel bad.

Hope has a great power to empower you to be positive in extremely negative times. Whenever you are in an insecure situation, you are free to hope for the best, or free to fear the worst. Hope is driven by trust and gives a very good feeling. Worry, driven by fear and suspicion, gives a very bad feeling. So be optimistic and hope for the best but stay realistic and be ready for the worst.

Faith is even more powerful as it is driven by desire. Desire, your free will, is one of your inherent freedoms that no one can take away from you. The more you want to believe, the more faith you will have.

Whether you find your happiness or not depends greatly on your integrity, being honest with yourself and being honest with your fellow men. Being dishonest fools others and makes you a fool in the end. Truth, covered by superficial lies, eventually shines thru the smallest of cracks. When your lies are finally exposed, it leaves you naked and miserable and regaining trust with your fellow man is very difficult.

Whether you find your happiness or not depends greatly on your helpfulness. If you help others you will make people thankful and happy, and it will rub off on you.

Whether you find your happiness or not depends greatly on your gratefulness. If you are grateful and openly acknowledge it, you will feel happy, and your happiness will rub off on others.

Whether you are happy or not depends greatly on your humor. If you are humored, or if you are humorous, you will feel happy and your happiness will rub off on others.

Money may buy happiness if you shop wisely. But many times it interferes negatively with your time, acquiring true friends, your dreams, hopes, love and health, all of the many things money can never buy.

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